Thursday, September 9, 2010

Ahhh so many days have passed without any report I have lost count :-)

Ahhh :-) I am just about a month away from my deadline.   So much to do, so little time.  Fortunately, despite a hectic summer,  progress has been made.   The summer was a blast.  :-)

June -- Soccer games, Roller Derby, catsitting, iWalkiThrive Launch, Gardening, Family, Tamales, Ironbound/BBQ, Cocktails, Shopping, Movies, Clutter overhaul
July -- More soccer games, fireworks, BBQs, Roller Derby, catsitting, WorldCup/Buffalo Wings, Catamount -- Tree Tactics/Ziplining, Miami, NBDS, Dorney Park 2X, the beach, birthday parties, swimming, Portugese/girls night, Spa Days, Palm Trees, Cuban Night, Museums, Movies...
August -- Roller Derby, camping, kayaking, gourmet pizza, Hamptons, Bachlorette Party, Vineyards and Winetasting,  Dorney Park - water slides and roller coasters, Peruvian Family Pahtays and Cowbells, movies, the beach, birthday parties, swimming, Mexican Fiesta Night, Day at the Park, Stargazing/Moonchasing...




For now, I just wanted to get the ball rolling again as I sweep up my -- Countdown to a Clutter Free life :-)

Today's plan --
RC -- work on invoices, make a list of files - PREP SEC stuff
RC/Volunteer -- IThrive -- help with pedometers
Volunteer:  SL -- Finish Application, Draft Letters for Recommendation.  Plan for tomorrow for days...
Car -- Oil Change -- Bring  in Coupon
Social -- Burgers with Friends, SYF
Home -- Laundry, Make piles for paperwork
Family -- Big issues going on.  Will maintain notebook of info.  Be patient.  Stay strong for self/family.


I have accepted that I will not be at my goal weight or have the perfect plan to pay off all my debt, but I definitely feel closer to being better organized :-) one day at a time...

Thursday, May 6, 2010

Days 24, 24, 26 and into Day 27 - Chips and Cookies

Friend posted this -- Real courage is moving forward when the outcome is uncertain. -  GP's Fortune Cookie

I love it....

So here is the latest scoop... I still have some residual hacking cough fits, but for the most part I have survived this pneumonia fairly well.  As it turns out, after a few revealing x-rays, it was a bit more than laryngitis....yuck.  However, I bought the antibiotics,

On the homefront, I have done little to get organized and clean.  :-(   Instead I opted to rest, veg, and play scrabble.  I am disappointed with myself I could have done more.

Financially, I am in BIG trouble.  My historical compulsive behavior is a bit overwhelming and tough to digest right now.   Over the years, I have accumulated enormous debt and I am hemmoraging.

I messed up my timecard so now as long as I can hold onto my job, I have to wait until the 21st.  Fortunately, I was able to contact some of my creditors and readjust accordingly with only a small penalty.
Nevertheless, made me realize how very tight situation I am in with little to no wiggle room.  I do not have a safety net at all and the consequences seem very scary.  However like the overwhelming loads of laundry and dishes piled high in the sink I will chip away at it and get through... somehow.

The work for PTJ is still looming.  I hope to tackle some folders tonight.  And to be completely caught up by Saturday.  Yes, SAturday seem reasonable for everything -- even though I am very very late.

As far as work here -- very overwhelming.... lots of to do piles....

Likewise, I will chip away at it.... or will try and make a list.... yes, an inventory would help for sure....
Scary part is I feel like I am dealing with a deck of cards and I do not want my world to crumble....

So I am taking small steps and inching my way forward even if I may have stepped back a few.

I am staying true to the "Divide and Conquer" philosophy as I prepare for battle against my piles....

:-)

Sunday, May 2, 2010

Days 20, 21, 22 and 23 -- CATCH UP

Ok -- I am falling behind and I need to pick up the pace quickly.  I currently have a few obstacles in my way and hurdles to overcome...Here is what is on my mind of an overall to do or to care for list (not in any particular priority order yet):

1) Laryngitis...
2) Find car key (spare)
3) Find eyeglasses
4) laundry
5) dishes
6) books
7) PTJ List - Files
8) Finances
9) Grad School
10) Volunteer opportunities
11) music
12) photos
13) Contacts - Cross Promotions - Address book
14) Golf

Recap --
Thursday -- home sick with cold -- slept all day
Friday -- some work done in office (but forgot to fill out time card :-(    )
Friday night -- Fun night out with girls on beautiful beautiful cruise around NYC, drinks Irish bar/live music with a new friend
Saturday -- Relaxed a bit then went to a very fun costume party, celebrated a few bdays, saw a band play - Risky Business
Sunday -- found out Seasons closed -- wow a big chapter of my life seemed to have closed with that too, off for a "silent date" with Ed -- i have laryngitis.... going to Fridays then see Date Night.

then tonight I plan to catch up on work and relax.... :-)

Wednesday, April 28, 2010

Day 19 -- Bleh

I feel crummy.  I have the chills.  My head is throbbing.  I feel crampy.  I feel congested.  I do not feel postive energy flowing through me now.  I feel like a potato sack - yuck.  Nevertheless, I chipped away at a few to do items.   The shining moment so far was that I really enjoyed today's book club session.  Here is an excerpt from my thank you note to the group leader, VP of a marketing brand:


Thank you for presenting The First 90 Days to the Book Club today. While reading the book I thought about these three simple questions (provided by a mentor) that I ask myself whenever I am making a transition or taking on a new endeavour:

1) What did I do that I want to stop doing

2) What didn’t I do that I want to start doing

3) What did I do that I want to continue doing


This simple exercise allows myself to examine that what worked in one setting may not apply in another. A new “home” or job may require new mandates or protocol. Yet, what may have worked in another setting may also still be a good approach in a new setting/environment. As we discussed in the group, this book seemed to echo some of that philosophy.


I look forward to examining the book futher so that I may help improve the effectiveness and efficiency of my current role, as well as, help others that might be coming on board. I have found it helpful to take assessments on a seasonal basis. Coincidentally, that is a 90 day period.


Many thanks and best wishes in your new home/job,

Kristen


Well for now I am off to a meeting - one that I will be on time for! :-) woo hoo.

Tuesday, April 27, 2010

Day 18 -- Steps and a Plan

Today it became apparent to me that I need a more formal plan to accomplish the goals I would like to achieve.  Today at work I was able to help one of the other assistants with their files.  However, why do I struggle so much with my own?  I need a plan at work.  I need an inventory list of current files made and a list of files to make.  I would also like to create a file/list of tasks I would like to learn/do and skills I would like to acquire.  I would also like to create a list or resource guide of what I work on and/or have accomplished in my current position.

After work, I listened to a teleconference on building a wellness sanctuary.  The organizer provided great examples on simple actions that can be taken to create a space of comfort and serenity at home and at work.  For example:  lighting scented candles, choosing colors that are soothing, or using the good dishes on an ordinary day.  Savoring the moment -- no matter what is going on.  I would like to create a welllness sanctuary at home, at work,  in my car, in my relationships etc :-) ....


In the evening,  I met with a few potential sponsors and invested a little time for PTJ.  Came home to a very pleasant surprise from a good friend -- a reminder that I am the boss of me!!

Now I am at Ed's house trying to comfort him with some goodies as recuperates from a nasty cold.


Til tomorrow -- another chance to organize my desk at work!   

Monday, April 26, 2010

Days 15, 16, 17 -- Ahhhh and then some

Big sigh... Sooo much to catch up on.  Friday night was fun -- girl time chatting about make up, hair styles, and those who have positively influenced us :-).  Saturday morning was a combo of taking care of my hair/nails and getting my car serviced.  Yuck, I needed new brake pads -- $$$. Then had a very yummy two hour sushi lunch at Sushi Palace with Ed in Edison.  Then we retreated to our respective homes for an hour nap.  Ed came back and we drove to Morristown to meet with friends for dinner.  Dinner was followed by a fun evening of dancing and lip syncing to a friend's band belting out hits from 70's, 80's and 90's.  Sunday morning was lazy.  In the afternoon, I met up with PTJ boss's prodigy.  Then I met with a counselor to work on my fatty issues... I have a game plan in place for that...Now if only I would schedule time for myself to exercise and to choose healthier foods/meals I would be all set.   I admit I am having trouble following through and getting started...In a way -- it is another way of procrastinating.  :-) aha.

Today was so/so.  Work was ok.  I spent the evening watching TV shows with Ed.  Now time for bed.  Tomorrow is a fresh start...

Friday, April 23, 2010

Day 14 - On the run again!!

Running out the door -- headed into the weekend and some fun times ahead!!! :-) Plan to report in tomorrow about progress thus far.  Lots of great ideas on the horizon... :-) Here's to keeping the positive energy alive!!